SSSC-Ch26 says
All the things that we see in the universe are nothing but a play of Maya — the creative power of the Lord.
These things do not really exist. What really exists is the Real Absolute.
Just as we mistake a rope of a garland or a stick for a serpent on account of darkness, we always see the phenomena, i.e. things as they outwardly appear, and not the Noumenon which underlies all the visible things.
It is only the Sad-guru that opens the eyes of our understanding and enables us to see things in their true light and not as they appear.
That is: You both are God. See his soul, not his outer; your soul connection will help mutually. There will be no hate; only mutual helps.
